City on a Hill

Hey friend, back here again.

We talked about success last time. How the internet can sell us a version of life that feels loud but empty. How what looks like success for everyone else shouldn’t automatically become the standard for you. But if you’ve taken even a moment to reflect, you might have found yourself drifting into something deeper.

Purpose. The why.

Why am I here? Why does any of this matter?
Why should I even try to be successful? What’s the point if, in the end, we all return to dust anyway? Why can’t I just live quietly and leave when it’s all done?

If you’ve been sitting with questions like this, then you’re standing at a very important point. It might not feel like it, but you are. And while I can’t tell you what your purpose is, I can tell you this: The reason you need to be more intentional about your version of success is the same reason you’re questioning it.

Because the point is… there is no fixed point.

There isn’t some universal script you’re meant to follow or a single definition of a life well lived. And that can feel unsettling at first. But it also means something freeing. It means you get to decide.

Look at it this way. Every night, you go to bed. It’s inevitable. No matter what you do, the day will end and you’ll find your way back to rest.

So why not just stay in bed all day? You don’t. You get up. You move. You do things. You experience life in all its complexity so that when you finally lie down again, it feels earned. It feels like rest. Not just sleep, but rest. And then, a few hours later, you wake up and do it all over again.

That’s what the inevitability of death feels like to me. If it’s all going to end anyway, then I want to build a life that feels worth resting from. Because how do you rest from resting? How do you leave this world without pouring out everything you carried?

Whitehaven Beach, Australia

I know this can sound naive. Maybe even out of touch. The world is heavy right now. The economy, artificial intelligence, conflict, constant noise, and the feeling that everything is shifting faster than you can keep up with. So the idea of being intentional, of giving more, of trying to leave a mark… it can feel like too much.

But to me, that’s exactly why it matters. I don’t want you to just be someone things happen to. I don’t want you to quietly shrink into whatever the world hands you. I want you to be honest about what makes you come alive. And then choose it. Especially when it’s hard. Because excuses will always be there. They multiply endlessly. You don’t.

If even one person is changed by the light you carry, that is more than enough. So please, share your light.

Song of the moment- Deep Water by Cameron Whitcomb

I hope you have an amazing week. Much love friend ❤️

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