Hello there🥰 it’s a beautiful Sunday morning to continue where we left off last week. If you didn’t read the last post, please check it out💪🏽

Recently, i got into a new relationship with a very smart and beautiful woman. Am I scared? Yes of course , I have been in previous relationships where I didn’t have the zeal to even try to make things work because I felt life will always take its course no matter how much effort I put in. In the sense of it all, I was just harbouring fear. The fear of the unknown, believing that what will be will be (Que Sera Sera) without even trying to be committed or trying to be a better person.

So underneath this, I’ll give you my ideas on relationships in case you’re trying to make the one you’re in or any prospective one successful. Please note that these are just my views and relationships don’t have any rule. What works for Specimen A might not work for Specimen B.  Irregardless, there are things we should take note of. 

~Try to adapt. You obviously can not expect to have the same ideas and beliefs as the person you are in a relationship with, so it is important to adapt if you want your relationship to last. If you care about your partner this step should come pretty easily. Your partner’s little quirks or beliefs may seem like a deal breaker, but if you have the ability to adapt, then your relationship has the amazing ability to go the distance.

~ I know the message today is all about “trying” but in this case please don’t try to keep scores.  All i am trying to say is if you do something nice for your partner, or do something to help out, you don’t have to announce it to them or the public just to score points.  The same goes for if they make a mistake, or make you mad, you shouldn’t feel the need to hold it against them just to make yourself look better. These are reasons why relationships don’t last. You should never make your partner feel like a loser in the relationship.

~ Try as much as possible to be encouraging. Support your partner’s dream in any way you can. You must be their number one cheerleader. Their win is also your win. 

~ Try to offer solutions, not criticisms. This is a very important factor. If there is a problem in your relationship, offer advice that tries to help them actually solve the problem rather than criticizing.

~ Try not to exempt yourself from blame. It’s a bad trait to have. Admit you’re wrong when indeed you are. It takes nothing away from you, instead it strengthens your relationship with your partner. There are no egos in a successful relationship.

~ Try to open up, don’t be afraid to speak your mind at any given time. It will help against insecurities in the relationship.

~ Try to reassure your partner about their importance in your life. It’ll help their confidence level in the relationship.

I wish you success in everything you’re trying to do in life and remember…….

You only have one life , TRY and make it a memorable one.

Have an amazing week guys🥳🥳

Written by – Adeoye Preye Charles Edited by – Olabanji Ibukunoluwa